Quoting SexyStudent:

Hi, FOGI! I started this lifestyle May of last year, when I graduated from high school.

Let's see...how do you know if they're real? Hmm. Honestly, I don't know what to tell you here, except to trust your intuition...if your gut feeling tells you that something is off, or if some things that he says contradict each other, then that's typically a sign that the man isn't real. And I'm assuming that you've emailed a little before you speak on the phone...if you have a common interest, then start a conversation about that, or if he's mentioned something on his profile or in an email that intrigues you, ask him about it. If he's traveled to a really fabulous place that you've never been to, then ask him his favorite thing about that particular place. People love to talk about themselves, and pot SDs are no exception! So, don't interrogate him, but ask a few questions here and there to start a conversation and show that you're genuinely interested in him. And don't be nervous...you wouldn't be talking to him if he didn't want to talk to you, so just relax, be yourself, and listen to what he has to say.

As for the allowance part, I know what you mean...it's really hard to bring that up, and it always makes me feel awkward. Typically, the man will bring it up, and when he tells you what he wants to give you or asks you what you expect, be honest! You can admit that you feel awkward, but tell him what you need. Don't get overly extravagant, but don't settle for less than what you absolutely need. And remember, sometimes allowances increase over the duration of an arrangement.

Sometimes, yes, a Pot SD will get sexual early on in conversation. The sad truth is, many men think that Sugar Baby is just another word for Pr*stitute. Unless you mention sex on your profile or allude to it first, then he really has no reason to bring it up. If things are going well other than that, like if you had a long conversation and he mentioned it in passing,or joked about it, then I'd say laugh it off. But if a man ever gets graphically sexual and weirds you out, disgusts you, or frightens you, then remember, you can hang up the phone or stop replying to his emails.

I hope I've been helpful!

SS

Hi, FOGI! I started this lifestyle May of last year, when I graduated from high school.

Let's see...how do you know if they're real? Hmm. Honestly, I don't know what to tell you here, except to trust your intuition...if your gut feeling tells you that something is off, or if some things that he says contradict each other, then that's typically a sign that the man isn't real. And I'm assuming that you've emailed a little before you speak on the phone...if you have a common interest, then start a conversation about that, or if he's mentioned something on his profile or in an email that intrigues you, ask him about it. If he's traveled to a really fabulous place that you've never been to, then ask him his favorite thing about that particular place. People love to talk about themselves, and pot SDs are no exception! So, don't interrogate him, but ask a few questions here and there to start a conversation and show that you're genuinely interested in him. And don't be nervous...you wouldn't be talking to him if he didn't want to talk to you, so just relax, be yourself, and listen to what he has to say.

As for the allowance part, I know what you mean...it's really hard to bring that up, and it always makes me feel awkward. Typically, the man will bring it up, and when he tells you what he wants to give you or asks you what you expect, be honest! You can admit that you feel awkward, but tell him what you need. Don't get overly extravagant, but don't settle for less than what you absolutely need. And remember, sometimes allowances increase over the duration of an arrangement.

Sometimes, yes, a Pot SD will get sexual early on in conversation. The sad truth is, many men think that Sugar Baby is just another word for Pr*stitute. Unless you mention sex on your profile or allude to it first, then he really has no reason to bring it up. If things are going well other than that, like if you had a long conversation and he mentioned it in passing,or joked about it, then I'd say laugh it off. But if a man ever gets graphically sexual and weirds you out, disgusts you, or frightens you, then remember, you can hang up the phone or stop replying to his emails.

I hope I've been helpful!

SS